Let’s Learn about Adoption – Book Review


From the Cover of Let’s Learn About Adoption: The Adoption Club Therapeutic Workbook on Adoption and Its Many Different Forms by Regina M. Kupecky, LSW:

“There are many kinds of adoption—and in this workbook the children of The Adoption Club learn about all of them!

The children of the Adoption Club are all different. There’s Mary who was adopted from China by her single mum; Alice who is still in touch with her birth parents in an ‘open adoption’; siblings Angela and Michael who lived in different homes for many years but are now back together; Robert who loves to do stunts in his wheelchair and Alexander who grew up with lots of children in a care home.

Written for counselors and therapists working with children aged 5–11, as well as adoptive parents, this workbook is designed to help children understand adoption in its many forms. It is one of a set of five interactive therapeutic workbooks featuring The Adoption Club written to address the key emotional and psychological challenges adopted children often experience. They provide and approachable, interactive and playful way to help children to learn about themselves and have fun at the same time.”

Regina M. Kupecky, LSW, has a Master’s Degree from John Carroll University. She has worked in the field of adoption for over 30 years. She currently works with children with attachment disorder and their families at The Attachment and Bonding Center of Ohio (www.abcofohio.net) and conducts training nationally and internationally on many adoption and attachment-related topics. Regina is the co-author with Dr. Gregory C. Keck of the best-selling books Adopting the Hurt Child and Parenting the Hurt Child.


5 hoots out of 5

Transfiguring Adoption awarded this book 5 Hoots out of 5 based on how useful it will be for a foster/adoptive family. [Learn more about our Hoot grading system here]

What Our Family Thought:

The target audience is adopted children and their families. Adoptees in the book represent foster care, domestic, kinship, and international adoptions by single, married, and same-sex parents. The adoptions represented vary in levels of openness with birth families, in placement with or separate from siblings, and in cultural compositions. This is one book in a series of therapeutic workbooks by Regina Kupecky (our interview with Regina Kupecky). One child (adoptee) reviewer enjoyed reading about the characters’ adoption stories and liked the questions that were asked in the book stating, “It gives me courage to talk about things I didn’t want to talk about before.” Another child (adoptee) reviewer did not like that there were workbook questions after each page or so of the story as it “interrupts the story too much,” but said that the book overall was good to use for discussion. We will note that while reviewing the book, we read the book and answered the questions in entirety in one sitting. Realistically, with the intensity of topics and emotions discussed, it would be better to break it up into several times of sitting down and reading and discussing, which would make the questions not seem so frequent. Overall our reviewers found the book helpful in starting healthy conversations about the situations and emotions involved in adoptions, and we highly recommend this book along with the other books in this series.

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It’s Your Turn:

Use the therapeutic discussion questions and activities in the book. Then keep the discussion going with others.

  1. What did your family like or dislike about this book?
  2. Was this book helpful for your family?


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